The beginning

Welcome to my first blog about women going thru a mid life crisis. Currently I am in the middle of one.

First of all, I have been married almost seven years and during this time, I have given birth to a wonderful child and a husband who forgot what a sexy bitch he has for a wife. I never thought I would ever look at another man other than my hubby. We discussed having a open relationship in the past, but now in its present state, I would rather take a hiatus from the marriage.

When I was in my 20's, I told myself that I would not get married because I get bored with people very easily if they do not keep my attention. With pressure from family and how they viewed my life (instead of me viewing it) I got married and then right after that, I was preggo. I thought "Am I supposed to be happy about this?" But I knew I wanted a child because that's what real women do, we conquer, we nurture and we give birth right? Now I know I may offend some people in saying that women are "supposed" to procreate. Get over it. My point is if you don't use it you lose it. I digress.

I wanted write about my midlife boogie because a lot of my friends are going through this realization of their own wonderful bodies and the younger men that want them. Now I understand why older men date younger women. The sex is awesome and the body is unmentionable. Now my current hubby, is hot and I am sure some ho will want his body..I don't do ugly men with little penises, so I already know what's up.

During my dating process in my early 20's, I loved dating. I didn't enjoy it until I relocated to Tennessee because the men there love women with a little meat on the bone. So I will start at the beginning:

Dating in Oklahoma
This article should be just abandoned. No really. My dating/loving life did not exist. The men only dated fair skinned and long haired women. Period. So that left a short chocolate woman with shoulder length hair dating bustas or choosing not to date at all. I dated a few bustas but my sex life did not occur until I was in my 20's. Later down the road, I will explain what a busta really is to me.

A lot of women that I know, living in my hometown have a difficult time dating to due to what's left and the type of women are considered attractive. All of my friends are beautiful women in their own right, but most of the decent men leave or date white women exclusively. I don't have a problem with that. I know where they stand and we can move on.

What is amazing to me, most of my ex's that I interact with at this point in my life, they are nice and sweet and shit. It's really strange, but I just go with the flow. In my mid 30's, I realize that I left pretty good track record with the men I dated.

So do I have this ability to be ignored within the relationship and once I am gone I'm missed? Most men that I dated got married right after being with me for any amount of time. Interesting huh? I realize that my father had two marraiges, my uncle had two as well, the second one sticks better I think because you know what you really need from a partner and that person is a better fit emotionally for the rest of your life. Next article, we will speak about 30 year women dating men in their 20's. If you would like to throw your comments about your mid life boogie please email me at theomilab@gmail.com.

This article is the beginning to figure out is their a mid life boogie for women? If so, let's break that sh** down and let it be known...we like fresh meat too. Let's take a journey or open this can of whup ass of life. Enjoy!